1. Don’t easily believe in other people’s unwarranted praise, and think more about their motives for praising you.

2. In any relationship, if one party is too strong, don't hesitate to let go immediately. This can effectively avoid PUA in the workplace and in the love field.

3. There are currently two ways to escape from internal circulation: either leave decisively or reduce your desires.

4. Don’t force yourself to fit into certain circles. If you don’t have the ability, the circles will not open up to you completely, and you will feel uncomfortable.

5. Don’t try to make everyone happy. You are a human being, not a God. Especially for people you don’t like, there is no need to humble yourself to satisfy them.

6. Don't argue with shabi, it's a waste of time, a summer insect cannot talk about ice.

7. If your financial situation allows, take your family for a physical check-up every year. The sooner you buy insurance for yourself and your family, the better.

8. Learn how to invest, manage your finances and save compulsorily. The former can help you make money, and the latter can save your life at critical moments.

9. The most effective way to change yourself is to do what you are afraid of.

10. Don't be nervous in public, everyone is busy and paying more attention to their phones than to you. So, relax and be natural, you don't have an audience.

11. Don’t be a teacher. Everyone knows the truth, and few people like to be taught from a superior position.

12. Don’t look down on anyone. Many people wearing slippers may be multi-millionaires.

13. Don’t overestimate your own abilities and lower your expectations. This way, when you do something, even if you complete it mediocrely, you won’t be devastated.

14. Learn to control your complaints and emotional venting. No one is obligated to bear your pain.

15. Don’t tell others before things are done. Don’t say you are wrong before you know the full situation.

16. Don’t pin your happiness on others. You need to bow and scrape to accept what others give you. If one day you make them unhappy, they can kick you away at any time.

17. Be respectful. When you meet old foxes or elites in high positions, don’t try to be smart. The safest thing is to be a fool.

18. You don't have to bow and scrape to others at any time. Being neither humble nor arrogant is the best state of life. The more humble a person is, the easier it is to be bullied. As the saying goes, people like to pick on the weak.

19. When facing those who infringe upon your rights, you must be thorny. The harder and more powerful your thorns are, the less likely those wimps will dare to infringe upon you.

20. Don’t turn your back on anyone who has cheated on you. Remember, don’t turn your back on anyone who has cheated on you once. Don’t be lucky. Someone who has cheated on you once will often cheat on you a second time.