๐ Have you heard the tale of the silver thread?
A small boy, heโs about to go to school & he doesnโt want to go to school. On his way to school, he meets an old woman holding a ball of silver yarn.
She says: โIf you pull from this yarn time will passโ.
He says: โIโm going to pull it because I donโt want to be in school, I just want to go to summer.โ
The old lady says: โBut hey, thereโs a catch. When you pull the thread, you can never go back. You can only go forward. But you can pull it as many times or as little as you want.โ
The little boy pulls the thread, Boom, summertime.
He says: โThis is amazing! I was able to skip that year of school.โ
He then thought, well what If I was able to skip all the years of schoolโฆ
So he pulls it again. Heโs now at university.
โAh, university is tough. What if I can just skip straight to work.โ
When heโs in the workforce he realizes heโs unhappy because heโs lonely.
He pulls the thread again so heโs in a relationship.
Boom, heโs married.
โOh wait, I missed my wedding day? Iโm not doing it anymore.โ
Little time goes by, his wife gets pregnant, and has a baby. The baby begins to scream and cry.
โOh man, I have to deal with this baby. Let me pull the thread to where heโs all grown up.โ
Pulls the thread, the childโs grown up.
Eventually, in old age, he realizes that he wanted to fast-forward all of his life and that he wasnโt able to experience any of it.
The premise is very simple. To live in the future is your inability to live in the present. People who live in the future are often unhappy.
Because they want to be something that they are not.
Donโt waste your life chasing the future.๐