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No matter their race or religion, we can't truly understand a person until we know what is in their heart—but we don't know what is in their heart. It is difficult because people's characters and behaviors are all different. We don't know what they are holding inside, what they have been through, or where they grew up. Where a person grows up is where they learn their behavior, and their character is shaped by the people around them. If they are surrounded by good people, they will develop a good character and a good personality. If they aren't, they won't build a good character. Sometimes we meet people, but they turn out to be completely different from who we thought they were.
We can't really change someone's mind or thoughts until they want to change themselves. We can't fix anyone until they want to be fixed. Sometimes, people who gain knowledge tend to become arrogant, but those who are good at heart and pure in their thoughts are not like that. However, when people are surrounded by a negative environment ,with too many negative people who do not trust Allah , their speech and behavior reflect that negativity. When you are surrounded by such people, you are likely to adopt their nature. We can't change a person like that. To change, they need their family's help, and their family can only help if they actually notice the problem.
Some people just think negatively. There are many types of individuals in this world. Some negative people choose to stay around positive people and change themselves because they have the will to change. But other negative people become consumed by negativity due to their past and their surroundings. Character building starts in childhood, that is the main thing. From childhood, we build our character and personality. When people have a bad character, it is often because they grew up in an environment where the standards were low, and we naturally become like those we spend time with. For example, if you surround yourself with a group of people who are good at business, you will naturally become a businessman. Yeah.
Can we really change someone? Can we? We can only change someone when they have the will to change. A person becomes negative when they lose their way and don't know where the right path is. For a Muslim, the most important thing is to trust Allah fully. If someone lacks that trust, they become disconnected from Allah. When a person is disconnected from Allah, their heart tends to become blocked. They must have the will to unblock it; if they don't have that desire, they can't change. Personality really depends on how a person's childhood went. If parents teach their child the right way, they will become a good person with strong character. Some people carry past trauma and heavy experiences, and that is exactly why they become so negative.
Still, we cannot let anyone insult us. No matter what they have been through, no matter how much pain is inside them, and no matter their past, it does not give them the right to disrespect us. We have to protect our dignity. We have to protect our honesty. We have to protect our self-respect, because if we don't respect ourselves, how can we expect others to respect us? Yeah, we have to stand firm and protect our peace.
Can we really change the person? It's a fair question, but we can change. How? It's when we are good at psychology and know human behavior deeply, like how to answer them and How to connect with there thoughts.
I will write a book with my someone, and we will put everything in it. There will be sections on how to build a good character, how to have a good heart, how to have a good personality, and how to get closer to Allah and stay connected to Him. We will write about how to trust Allah fully and how we can change our lives by having that complete trust. We will also talk about many more Islamic topics, scientific things, and overall, everything about how to live a good life.
We will write it deeply. We will include everything on how to build a good character, how to develop a good personality, how to stay connected to Allah, and how to keep a pure and good heart. Yeah, we will write it all.