Some people don't understand why you shouldn't tell a new man that you've lived together before. (This has nothing to do with whether you're traditional or not. It's mainly because others will judge your value and brains after hearing your story)

Let me first talk about the empathy of the value of men and women.

When a girl is in her twenties, she is in her prime and has the most choice of mates, which corresponds to the state of a man's career being on track, with a house and savings.

When a girl is a little older, she tells her blind date that she lived with a man in her twenties. In fact, in the eyes of the man, she was the most valuable time, but she was a licker for her ex-boyfriend, and finally failed to lick him and broke up.

Transforming is equivalent to,

A man tells you that he used to be a licker for a woman. At that time, his career was okay. He spent one or two million on this woman. In the end, this woman ran away.

Now that he is dating you, his career is not as good as before. (Career corresponds to the girl's age and fat appearance)

When a woman hears this story, she will think that you used to spend so much money on your ex-boyfriend. Your value has dropped now, so you come to me. I deserve it, right?

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