Zhang Xuefeng said:
Don't raise your children to be too honest, but tell them these 6 sentences:
First, speak loudly.
Dare to express, dare to refuse, and speak with confidence. As long as you don't owe others, you don't have to be submissive.
The louder and more decisive you are, the more others will respect you. If you hesitate and dare not speak loudly, others will bully you more easily.
Second, don't be afraid of socializing, and don't pay too much attention to the relationship with your classmates.
No matter who it is, it is not worth your grievance and flattery. It is wise to give up any relationship that consumes you.
Any relationship is staged. Those who should come will come, and those who should go will go. Don't be sad because of others' departure. There is no feast that will never end. Cherish it when you have it, and don't force it after losing it. Just have a clear conscience.
Third, learn to refuse and dare to refuse, even if the other party is a teacher.
All those who force you must be those who do not respect you. No matter who this person is, as long as his request is unreasonable, you must be brave to refuse, and do not let others think that you are easy to bully.
Fourth, if your classmates slander you, you must dare to fight back.
Good people are bullied, and good horses are ridden. If someone slanders you, you must fight back bravely. For those who do not respect you and bully you, if tolerance is exchanged for the other party's encroachment, then turning your face is the best way to solve the problem.
Fifth, if someone wants your things, don't hesitate, just ask him what you will exchange with me.
You don't owe anyone, you have the right to refuse others, don't make trouble when there is nothing to do, and don't be afraid of trouble when there is something to do. You can not hurt others, but you must not be bullied by others.
Sixth, if you are wronged, tell your parents as soon as possible, they will always support you.
When you encounter any difficulties, when you don't know what to do, you must tell your parents, your parents are the most trustworthy people in the world, your parents will always be your strong backing, and they will always support you.
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