The most important thing in life is to keep your own rhythm. No matter who you meet or what happens, don't change your rhythm.

The more young people are in their twenties, the more likely they are to be disturbed by others. These people may be your family, friends, or your lover. The closer they are, the easier it is to disturb your development rhythm.

Once you compromise with these disturbing rhythms, it is the beginning of disaster, followed by endless pain. People become weak and start from becoming vassals of others.

Don't cater to anyone, let the outside world follow your rhythm. If anyone doesn't conform to your rhythm, then break off quickly, don't entangle, seize the time to develop, and get out of the original class as soon as possible. The sooner the better, the farther away the better, the cleaner the break, the better the development. People must first learn to stay away and escape before they can understand what it means to develop.