How to become a calm person

1. You must control your desire to show off.

You must believe that if you are awesome enough, others will see it, and you don't need to prove it with your mouth.

The fault of people is that they like to teach others. The more they are unforgiving, high-profile and competitive, the less promising they are. The more they like to show off in front of others, the more they will become a thorn in the eyes and flesh of others.

This is not to make you a coward, but if others don't invade you, you don't have to offend them.

Facts have proved that showing off is useless except making enemies, causing trouble and attracting hatred.

2. Have the ability to maintain economic independence and independent thinking.

At least have a stable source of income, can support yourself, and don't rely on others to live, so as not to be controlled.

Read more, think more, get in touch with more people and things, don't panic when encountering things, you can listen to other people's advice, but make your own choices in the end. Let me say here that reading should also be selective. It does not mean that as long as it is a book, you can improve yourself. Some books like "The Overbearing President Falls in Love with Me" are of no help to you at all, and there is no difference from watching idol dramas.

3. Before doing anything, consider whether you can bear the consequences. If you are not ready to get married and have children, please wear a condom and don't do things that are irresponsible to yourself, love, and children.

If you don't have a family property of several hundred million, don't go to the casino to mess around, that's not a place where you can bear the consequences.

If you don't have enough financial strength, don't enjoy those luxury goods you can't afford in advance, overdraw multiple credit cards, and multiple platforms for online loans. These things are all things that others will come forward to clean up your ass.

4. Don't lose yourself in love, and don't treat love as a life-saving straw.

A dog licker doesn't even have dignity, let alone calmness.

Love relies on mutual affection. If you don't deserve someone, make yourself excellent, there is no other way.

5. Learn to repair the roof on sunny days.

Improve yourself when you have plenty of time. Don't wait until you graduate and look for a job, only to find out that you don't have any certificates and no company is willing to hire you.