4 things you only know when you mature (essence)

1. Every trough will make you go higher.

Everyone who can successfully look at the situation with a smile today has been in a miserable state; everyone who is confident and brilliant has been helpless; everyone who has underestimated love has been there until death. Resolutely don't talk to people who have nothing to do with you, don't say a word! People must learn the focus and subtraction system, and use all their energy to take care of themselves and grow themselves. As for other people, it is their own business.

2. Don’t let those who have hurt you before have the chance to hurt you a second time.

Why does a person suffer inside? Because it is constantly being hurt by one person, and the master is that as long as you have hurt me, we will stay apart and be safe. Most people are always controlled by emotions. They know that being with this person is wrong, but they still can't control themselves. However, the real masters know that there is no ending with this person, and they give up decisively even if they like him no matter how much they like him.

The short-term pain is temporary, but the long-term pain is lifelong. The biggest mistake in life is not not working hard enough, but the wrong vision, such as choosing the wrong "partner", the wrong "partner", and the wrong "friend". The biggest stupidity of people is that you always talk about ideas with an unthinking person, talk about education with uneducated people, talk about feelings with people who don't care about you, and make friends with people who look down on you. These are all very stupid behaviors. .

You have to be able to pick it up and put it down in life. The rest of your life is very expensive, so please leave it to those who know the goods!

3. The difference between childishness and maturity

Childish people only do what they like and say what they want to say. Only when you mature will you understand that doing what you should do is valuable and saying what you should say is meaningful. One day you will find that you can only become the person you like by becoming the person you hate; you can only have the opportunity to do the things you like by doing what you should do first.

4. You should never experience good times when you are young; you should never experience leisure times when you are middle-aged; you should never experience adversity when you are old. Compare this to what state you are in now?

People superficially compete for money, cars, and houses, but essentially they compete for cognition and action. The outcome of life lies in six words:

Think clearly + do it right!