躺撸达人

经典女权：女人不需要男人，就像金鱼不需要自行车
经典男权：男人要走自己的路（mgtow），女人滚出男人的生活
田园女拳：女人天生应该吃男人用男人榨干男人（代表人物：大女人曲曲）
田园男拳：女人必须无条件跟我们结婚，老老实实给我们生孩子（代表人物：董圣）
毛主席女权：奴隶分什么男女，男的挑200斤女的必须也挑200斤（代表人物：郭凤莲）

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Du Yongping gave a speech more than 20 years ago where he talked about a very interesting phenomenon: in the end, scammers often end up “robbing each other.”

He said that in the early years he was in Guangdong and had seen many businessmen. Making money, he said, often came from one scam after another. Two people could team up today to trick others—once the money came in, they would turn around and start plotting against each other, tricking each other again. What’s strange is that at the time these people looked quite well-off, but within less than ten years, much of their money was basically taken away by others who had scammed them. In the end, they ended up being the ones who were poor.

There was one line from Du Yongping that I remember very clearly:
Scammers are strange—they always end up with other scammers.

The reason, actually, isn’t complicated. If a person profits for a long time by deceit, taking advantage, and careful scheming, then the friends, partners, and circles they eventually filter into are often people who recognize and follow the same set of rules. Real people who value integrity, after suffering once, will gradually keep their distance. What remains, in the end, is a group of people just as skilled at scheming.

Over time, he will confine himself to an environment where nobody is worth trusting. The money you get from deceiving others today may be taken away tomorrow by someone even better at deceiving.

Integrity has compounding returns; deception also has compounding returns. The former leaves you with an increasing number of people worth long-term collaboration. The latter makes your relationship network worse and worse. In the short term, scammers might make money quickly. But if you stretch the timeline to ten or twenty years, many outcomes are already written into the circle they have built.

The older generation is good at enduring hard work, but they aren’t good at “burning themselves out.”

The older generation really wasn’t able to eat enough—but that also meant their brains didn’t have to run on enough glucose fuel to overload.

Nowadays, maintaining long hours of high-intensity brain work requires caffeine (stimulant), tobacco (sedative), and high-sugar diets (milk tea, sweets)—a level of intensity where your forehead is “smoking” and steam seems to rise from your head. Other than a small number, the older generation really hasn’t experienced this.

Going hungry and underdressed is one kind of hardship.

Having plenty of fuel and still having to push the engine until it burns all the oil dry is another kind of hardship.

Let’s add a few more problems the older generation wasn’t good at—or simply never encountered.

1. Multi-line operations and information overload.

Boredom/emptying one’s mind is a kind of brain rest for humans. In the past, it was easy for people to get “cave time”—to stay away from villages or workplaces and take a break to let their brain rest. But for modern people, wanting to “shut down” for a while has become increasingly difficult. The human brain isn’t designed for 24-hour multitasking—one mind doing two, three, or more things at once, like running threads forever.

Compared with those born in the 1960s and 1970s, people born in the 1980s and 1990s have more severe ADHD, or more fundamentally, a kind of workplace injury caused by information overload—“the brain won’t stop.” Being in a constant state of readiness 24 hours a day, or being stuck in a long-term multitasking cache that can’t be released, is essentially no different from a punishment like using a dripping water faucet to drip onto your face.

2. The disappearance of a sense of meaning.

Highly segmented work cuts the causal relationship between a person’s work and the results in their awareness, dissolving the sense of meaning in their labor.

Digging soil is hard—but once you swing a shovel, you can see a clump of soil lifted out, with a very clear cause-and-effect relationship.

Farming is hard—but you can see your crops sprout, grow, and harvest; the results are visible to the naked eye.

Highly specialized division of labor severs this connection. Modern people have to spend huge amounts of mental effort every day just to fight the internal churn of “what is the point of all this I’m doing?”—and the depression that comes along with it.

Doubao tells me that after Jing Tian had her older brother to take care of her, she often skipped classes at the Beijing Dance Academy and didn’t come back home at night. She was expelled from the Beijing Dance Academy. Her older brother has great abilities, and he even arranged for Jing Tian to study at the Central Academy of Drama.

Note: The Beijing Dance Academy is a serious school, and its president is a serious president. The Central Academy of Drama is an unserious school, and its dean is an unserious dean. ​​​

Many people with big numbers will not be Sun Chengyu or not be Tong Yitian,

It’s just that the one who was locked in a cell and had to pay back only 80,000 and still wouldn’t want to give up, the desperate financial matters,

and the two people who, day and night, stuck cloth patches on window frames without understanding what the meaning of it was,

and the aunt who would keep going in to clean a room that cost tens of thousands a night, even if it was empty,

and the customer who bought movie tickets to take the kids with them, and after it was already purchased and the tickets were there but they didn’t know why they couldn’t watch it.

It’s said that Justin Sun called Jing Tian’s mother not to flirt, but to be able to get a refund for underage users.

Would this also count as childhood friends...?

I only found out today too:

If a phone’s battery is below 10%, taking a high-priced car is part of the algorithms used by Didi and Amap.

This thing actually isn't that unbelievable anymore.

A “spirit guy” turned 18 and started dating a “spirit girl” who was 16.

They were passionate and quick to act—she got pregnant and they planned to get married.

The “spirit girl” comes from a single-parent family. Her mom is from the older generation of “spirit girls.” Back then, that style was called “non-mainstream.” Her mom was only 33 at the time.

After the wedding, the girl went home to have the baby.

The “spirit guy” developed really well—185 cm, and… let’s just say he was very capable.

Before long, things sparked between him and his mother-in-law, and they succeeded.

The mother-in-law got pregnant…....

I’d rather starve to death than work a two-shift rotation job. When you’re young, working a few years is fine, but once you get older, don’t do it anymore!

After eating the gossip about “Daji” from Wuhan University of Technology and getting hooked, I ended up being impressed by the male lead “Tsinghua Ge”’s实力 (“power”/capability)

Tsinghua undergrad; PhD from the Institute of Automation, Chinese Academy of Sciences
Disciple of Li Guoqi, Shi Luping, and Liu Chenglin

While his own PhD research proceeded as usual, he also helped his girlfriend write four CCF-A category papers
And he even handled all of her 3 million RMB worth of Tencent job work
He also spent 10 million RMB on a wedding apartment in Beijing

With this top-tier setup, in the end he still got cheated on by the female lead—twice

The reason the female lead gave was: “Not quite handsome”
😅

Really kind of feel sorry for the male lead. With conditions like these, he could win in any blind date; but somehow he ended up with a woman like this—a truly formidable one
💀

Youth begins with satisfying sexual desire.

Whenever you walk past the high school evening study playground, the hotel near the university town, or the entrance to a university girls’ dorm, you can’t say that college students have no youth. The one without youth is you—the bold, confident kind—who always finds a way to enjoy what youth feels like.

Clicking sounds, kissing sounds, and moaning sounds are the kinds of noises that make the sexually awakened men and women of adolescence feel their hearts surge.

A person’s physiology is such that once adolescence begins, they naturally have the strongest sex drive.

And in high school and college, most young people can’t feel confident anywhere on their body—because of family circumstances.

If you can’t feel confident, you can’t get a partner. If you can’t get a partner, you’ll choose to do it yourself. After doing it yourself too many times, you still end up with sexual repression.

Because this is something that—by nature—can only be completed through collaboration between two people who have sensitivity and spirit. If you do it yourself, you’ll feel severe guilt and emptiness.

At the end of the day, it’s still because you’re too poor. Young people just can’t lift their heads.

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Nolan is an amateur

I went to a nightclub yesterday and saw a couple.

The man was drinking, and the woman leaned into his arms. She was even blocking his drinks for him—it was so warm and sweet.

At the time, I was thinking, if only my wife were this gentle.

Later, when I walked closer and took a look, huh—it really was my wife.

My classmate’s mom is always getting sick, and her body is particularly weak.

Later, she started believing in some kind of religion. She spent tens of thousands of yuan buying a master’s portrait, then every day kneels down and head-bolts toward the portrait.

She head-bolts hundreds of times every day—have you seen head-bolting?

Have you ever seen burpees?

Head-bolting is basically like doing fewer burpees: instead of the jump, it’s just the part where you spring up and slap your hands on your head.

This old lady kneels and head-bolts a few hundred times a day at home. She’s practiced enough that—let alone being sick—she even has abs now.

She’s almost 70. She can even change the water in a water dispenser.

My classmate said, “Just do it. If you spend a couple grand, spend a couple grand.”

Stop now and look around you. Blink your eyes, and touch your own arm.

First: As long as you are still alive and healthy, the only fact is that you are healthy and alive right now—and you can perceive everything around you. Beyond that, there is nothing else that is truly real.

Second: As for what your mind thinks—what you’ll do tomorrow, who used to treat you badly, the things that have recently upset you, and the emotions that then arise—everything is just a play of your mind. It’s false.

All peace comes from the first point. Peace comes from knowing that if there is no physiological pain, then in truth you have nothing to worry about. Observe the world quietly, like a deity.

All suffering comes from the second point. Suffering arises because human beings live in a realm of illusory appearances; in a dreamlike state, they torture themselves.

This is the key to the peace and joy of life.

When I was a kid, our family was poor.
I could only eat the planet cups left over by my classmates.
Most of the time, there were no spoons.
That also trained my unique palate.
I see it as a gift poverty gave me.