Things that I gradually understood after the storm:
1.
If a man is unsuccessful, his wife will leave, his relatives will stay away, and only his ignorant child will call him: dad.
2.
If a man is not hardworking, he will be worthless for his life; if a woman is not hardworking, she will suffer for her life.
3.
Communicate more directly, refuse to help if you can't, and understand the difficulties of others when you ask for help. Don't joke with people you are not familiar with, and don't argue with people you are too familiar with.
4.
Why are you unhappy? Because you are not selfish enough. In this world, selfish people are often the happiest. You consider everything for others, but you end up spoiling them and wronging yourself.
5.
Don't do things that are dishonest, harmful, or cheap. Don't cooperate with the people around you in a very profitable business, especially friends and relatives.
6.
Never confide in anyone, because you never know when you will turn against each other. The person who can put you in S place is often the person who knows you best.
7.
Daughter-in-law, don't talk about your parents' family in your in-laws' family, and treat yourself as an outsider. Don't tell them about your parents' family.
8.
Don't ask about things that you can't help with, and don't give any opinions on things that you don't have to pay for.
9.
Stay away from people who habitually attack you and prevent you from being excellent, even if they have a sharp tongue and a soft heart. Stay away from them as much as possible.
10.
You don't need too many friends, because sometimes friends do the same things as enemies.
11.
Money can cure all inferiority, kindness and honesty are useless, you must also be excellent!
12.
When you get along with anyone, always keep 20% of mystery, even if you are husband and wife.
