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People who worship Buddha are not kinder than ordinary people
——Manager Lu, the leader of the fraud group, killed someone one second and worshipped Buddha the next. Therefore, when you are walking in the world, you must have a basic understanding: 1. People who believe in Buddhism are not more kind than ordinary people; 2. People who like cats and dogs are not more loving than ordinary people; 3. A lover who is filial to his parents may not be filial to your parents. Many times, one thing can only represent one thing, but people always like to use too many associations to fill their expectations of another person.
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Bad people only get older, not better.
——Manager Lu said to Mr. Pan: "They are greedy, not us." Why do bad people only get older and never get better? Because every bad person has his own set of values, in which his bad logic is self-consistent. Just like what Mr. Ji Xianlin said: "Bad people, like all poisonous plants and animals, do not know that they are bad people. And I also found that bad people will not change for the better. I have never seen a bad person change for the better in my life." So, don't easily believe that bad people will change for the better, even if they occasionally do good things.
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You haven't been cheated yet, just because you lack a scam tailor-made for you
——Don’t think you are smart and think you can stay away from online fraud. There is a saying: The reason you haven’t been cheated yet is not because you are smart or because you don’t have money, but because the “script” that suits you is on the way, just waiting for an opportunity.
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The real good opportunity to make money will not be the first for ordinary people to make money
——Opportunities to make a fortune will not come to ordinary people first. Normal business is: I have a product, will you buy it? Abnormal business is: I have an opportunity to make a fortune, will you come? Therefore, anything that says it is for your own good, guarantees that you can make money, and get high returns immediately, is a scam.
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Many opportunities to make money have already become opportunities to make money from you when it comes to you.
—— Let me spread a common sense: No one will bring you a real opportunity to make money. Why tell you that you will add a competitor? Why advertise it widely, afraid that the whole world will not know? If everyone can make money, then no one can make money, right? Therefore, if someone is selling a chance to make money, there is a 95% chance that he is a liar, and the other 5% chance is that this business is no longer profitable, he wants to sell his shovel, and if you fall for it, it will be his last penny.
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Behind all the bargains there is a pit
——All or Nothing proves the pie in the sky law: when pie falls from the sky, there must be a trap waiting for you on the ground. There is no such thing as a free lunch, so never believe in stories like "pie falls from the sky and just hits you". As long as you don't believe in pie falling from the sky, you can avoid 99% of scams.
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There is no hatred or love without reason in the world.
——All or Nothing tells us: If a stranger or someone you don’t know well suddenly shows enthusiasm to treat you well and introduces you to a high-paying job or a chance to make a fortune, please be highly alert: Why does he help you instead of his relatives and friends? There is no hatred or love without reason in this world. If there is, 99% of them are scams.
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Things that go against common sense and logic must have pitfalls
——How can there be such high-paying jobs in such a poor place like Myanmar? How can there be such an easy opportunity to get rich? How can it be your turn? Are you prettier than Jin Chen or more handsome than Zhang Yixing? 99% of things that go against common sense and logic are scams. People who don't respect common sense are easily deceived.
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When a person wants to make quick money, he is not far from risk.
——The experiences of Pan Sheng, Anna, and A Tian all confirm this statement. The philosopher said it well: "We are not provoked by the object to desire, but on the contrary, we have the desire in our hearts that changes and then we look for the object. We all think that it is the external things that tempt us, but the temptation actually comes more from our own inner demons." Therefore, when a person wants to make quick money, he is not far from the risk.
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Stay away from all those who engage in gray and black industries
——Anna’s experience tells us: We must stay away from all those who are involved in gray and black industries, otherwise you will be the one who deals the cards.
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The most untrustworthy people in Southeast Asia are some of our compatriots
——All or Nothing tells us: Don’t trust any compatriot who wants to take you to work in Southeast Asia, whether it’s a friend, relative or fellow villager. Don’t think that all Chinese people will help each other, because there, it’s your compatriots who will push you into the abyss.
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Stop loss immediately, not in time
——The tragedy of "A Tian" tells us: If you take the wrong road, the only way is to stop loss immediately. For wrong things, the sooner you stop, the lower the cost. Correct the mistake immediately after finding it, no matter how big the cost is, it is the smallest cost. Remember, it is to stop loss immediately, not to stop loss in time. Many people think that it is good to stop loss in time, but timeliness is actually a kind of procrastination, always thinking that you should take a look. Listen to me, it must be immediate, don't delay for a second.
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Never test your own humanity
——Never test your own human nature in some things, such as gambling. Before getting involved in gambling, everyone thinks they will not become a gambler. After getting involved, the probability of becoming a gambler is 99%. But before becoming a gambler, every gambler thinks he is in the 1%. After becoming a gambler, they all think they will stop immediately after winning back. This idea is the theoretical basis for them to convince themselves when borrowing money everywhere. 99% of people can't do it, but they all think they are in the 1%.
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Never trust the character of a gambler
——The story of "A Tian" tells us a truth: never trust the character of a gambler. The character of a person before becoming a gambler and the character of a person after becoming a gambler are two different things in time and space. No matter how high the lower limit was before, there will be no lower limit after that. Therefore, do not believe even the punctuation marks of the words of gamblers and drug addicts.
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Don't interfere with other people's fate casually, otherwise you will have to bear the consequences for them.
——Many girls keep saying that they want a good character when choosing a partner, but in fact they are very slow to react to a man's character. Even if the other party does something extremely horrible, they will not consider leaving, just like "Song Yu" in "All or Nothing". I don't appreciate this kind of behavior - when looking for a partner, the first thing to do is to choose, because the possibility of changing the other party later is basically zero. So adults only screen, not educate - don't interfere with other people's fate casually, otherwise you will have to bear the consequences for others.
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We must stay where we are and fight it with all the means at our disposal.
——When you encounter the kind of kidnapping in "All or Nothing", self-defense experts give three principles for dealing with it: 1. Don't go with him to the second location - he will take you to a remote place and do whatever he wants to you; 2. No matter how nice the bad guy says, don't believe it - every scammer, kidnapper, and rapist will say the same thing: "Do what I say, and I won't hurt you." If you take it seriously and get into his car or follow him to a certain place, you're done; 3. Fight him where you are and do everything you can - if he wants to kill you where you are, you would have died long ago. The reason why he wants to take you to other places is because he doesn't want to kill you where you are. So we have to fight him where we are and do everything we can. If he doesn't want to be caught and doesn't want to make a big deal, he may just run away.
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Good people are often less inflammatory than bad people.
——"To be successful, you must first go crazy." Manager Lu of the fraud group is too inciting. Why are good people not as inciting as bad people? Because good people exploit people's conscience, while bad people exploit people's weaknesses. Conscience is no match for weaknesses.
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Remember, money must be clearly separated
——If your friends and relatives are addicted to health products, fortune myths, pig-killing scams, etc., no matter how you persuade them, it is useless. Not only do they not listen, but they defend the scammers again and again. If there are such people around you, remember that you must be clear about money. You give him money, but he just donates it to the scammers. So, don't be soft-hearted. If he doesn't listen, just let him go. Just like Lian Yue said: The common sense and rationality we get are mainly to make our own lives better, not to be responsible for the lives of fools.
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Only a liar can give you the most perfect love
——In "All or Nothing", many scammers are doing pig-killing scams. So, if you suddenly meet someone who is a perfect match for you, with high conditions and humble attitude, then you must be careful, there is no such person, he must be close to you for some purpose, don't believe in fairy tales so much - every perfect lover who falls from the sky is here to kill pigs.
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The one who hurts you is often the one who saves you
——Anna’s experience of being cheated tells us that when you are in “trouble”, the person who always appears in time to save you from danger is often the one who designed the trap to harm you. Every time Tang Seng encountered a disaster, the Bodhisattva and Buddha would appear in time. He never dreamed that the person who saved him was the one who designed the 81 difficulties.
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Don't assume that most people are good people, it's easy to be cheated
——I have a feeling after watching "All or Nothing": Don't assume that anyone is a "good person", no matter how many labels they have. The three views of ordinary people are usually lawful evil. Although mainstream society advocates that human nature is good, when you deal with people in life, you will not go wrong if you assume that the other party is a bad person, assume a bad situation in advance, and make a response plan based on this premise.
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If you want to persuade others, appeal to their interests, not their reason.
——"You can never earn this much money in your entire life working for someone else." Why can Manager Lu control so many people? Because he understands too well what Benjamin Franklin said: "If you want to convince others, appeal to their interests rather than reason." This sentence is too profound.
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Living a down-to-earth life is the truth
——As an ordinary person, we should define the goal of life as how to live peacefully, rather than pursuing unearned gains, sudden windfalls, and overnight wealth. Sometimes in life, it is because we are too eager to get something that we impulsively make so many wrong choices and put ourselves in an irretrievable situation. Therefore, most of us should learn to accept that we are ordinary people and never bet everything on one throw. What we need to restrain throughout our lives is the desire to mess ourselves up.
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Freedom = Ability - Desire
——There are only two ways for an ordinary person to be free and happy: add ability and subtract desire. On the one hand, you must have the ability to make choices, and on the other hand, you must have the ability to control your material desires. Your ability must be greater than your desires in order to have a good life.
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Good things never come for free.
——"All or Nothing" tells us: There is no shortcut to the success of ordinary people in this world. As ordinary people, we still have to follow the laws of the development of things, and believe in the power of calmness and slowness, and accept the things that get better and get better slowly. Just like Yohji Yamamoto said: "I never believe in lazy freedom. The freedom I yearn for is a broad life achieved through diligence and hard work. Such freedom is precious and valuable. I believe in the 10,000-hour rule. I never believe in inspiration that falls from the sky and achievements that are achieved by waiting. I want to be a free and self-disciplined person, and live seriously with the determination that is bound to be achieved."
