How much character defect can lack of love in childhood cause when you grow up?

1. You are very defensive, don't trust anyone in your heart, and won't open your heart to others easily. When looking for a life partner, conditions are secondary. Can tolerance for yourself give yourself full emotional value? This is very important.

2. Very serious expression, always looks like "he's got a lot on his mind", a bit stubborn, especially don't like to be told what to do, difficult to control emotions, hard to figure out personality, giving people a feeling of "keep away from strangers".

3. Very easily moved by others' kindness, never forgetting, even overloaded to repay.

4. Independent personality and self-esteem, for things that can't be solved in life, would rather choose to give up, will not easily ask for help, this often loses a lot. Such people, it is hard to imagine that they are gentle, they are the type that would rather break than bend.

5. Don't like the hustle and bustle, always love to live in isolation, even in the bustling crowd, the heart is empty, it is difficult to establish a deep relationship with others, others get closer, they want to step back three steps, in the heart has already formed a clear boundary, people around them cross the boundary, making them feel extremely uncomfortable.

6. The attitude towards life, just go with the flow, don't have too much expectation, feel that you can accept the worst, can also enjoy the best, but can't stay in a fixed relationship for a long time, so don't like toss, appear negative or degenerate.

7. No close friends, they slow down The way to relieve their stress and emotions is to be alone, play music, go shopping, enjoy delicious food, and take a nap. They usually don't talk.

8. In terms of material, they often show two extremes, either extreme frugality or extravagance. The former is to continue the previous habits, and the latter is to make up for the past losses.

9. Such people often turn against each other and show an indifferent attitude. They don't cherish the relationship, but because he was not cherished and treated well when he was a child, he doesn't know how to maintain the relationship. As long as you make him uncomfortable, he simply turns against you and stays away from you, and he will be at ease. Sometimes they are angels, sometimes they are demons, giving people a lot of room for imagination.

10. Their attitude towards their parents is very complicated. They love and hate them. They want to get close to them, but they feel alienated. They can give a lot to their parents, but they feel very embarrassed when they are alone. They always have a knot in their hearts. Their married life is mostly to fulfill a regretful dream in their childhood. Their attitude towards their spouse is actually a reflection of their relationship with their parents. It's not that they don't love their spouse. They really can't grasp this measure and often make things worse.

11. Their self-esteem is generally high, showing a strong personality and giving people a strong sense of aggression. In fact, they are very fragile most of the time, and their external performance is their own cover-up and for self-protection.

12. Their personality changes are often caused by trauma when they were young. In marriage, they are healed by their other half, and then they begin to take off their disguises and show their true personality.

So there is a saying that some people use their lifetime to heal their childhood, and some people use a good childhood to heal their lifetime.

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