1. You can sympathize with the lower classes or groups that are very different from you, but try not to get too close to them.

2. Learn to respect the fate of others. Many times, there is a cause and an effect. Some people may seem pitiful, but in fact they are hateful.

3. Talk about the past with old friends and talk about the future with new friends.

4. Whether you want to save your marriage or save your love, please focus all your attention on yourself. Only if you do the right thing will others be willing to come back. Give up unnecessary behavior.

5. If someone with whom you have a good relationship asks you to borrow money, you may not be able to pay him back; if someone with whom you have an inadequate relationship asks you to borrow money, he definitely has no intention of paying you back.

6. Money is the only thing that can measure the respect others have for you. Remember, it is the only thing! Because you are just an ordinary person.

7. Relatives, friends, colleagues and people at the same class level as you do not want you to be too successful. This is my personal experience, and this is also the reason why it is very difficult to achieve class crossing.

8. People who can establish a long-term intimate relationship with you will accept you for who you are even more logically than your parents. Therefore, parents’ opinions may not always be right when it comes to marriage and making friends.

9. Your identity determines the credibility of your words. Don’t talk a lot if you have not accomplished anything. Save your limited energy, output less and input more.

10. Introverts get energy from being alone, while extroverts get energy from partying.

11. People who complain about their parents, partners, or children in front of you are often not worth making friends with.

12. Everyone has limited energy. Even if you are a team leader, please focus your energy on yourself.

Adults can only screen but not persuade. Incompetent people are the most vengeful and laziest, but they want to succeed the most.

13. To survive in the underworld, you need to raise your own status, establish a family, and it is necessary to have a proper personality, especially for children from ordinary families who are just entering the workplace. It is time to dress better, eat more, and strive to seize opportunities. Don't be too frugal.

14. Opportunities and success do not necessarily come to those who are prepared. When you decide to do something, you don’t need to prepare too much in advance. In fact, you are already half way to success.

Just do it first, and then add what you need in the process, just start.

15. Reward yourself at regular intervals and form a reward mechanism for yourself.

You should know that most people rarely get encouragement in groups, and it is difficult for them to get praise in groups such as family and work. If you want to achieve certain results, you must first encourage and reward yourself.

16. If you want to be confident, the first step is to be conceited. Don’t think that conceit is a derogatory word. For people with low self-esteem, it is difficult to grasp the scale of self-confidence. Don’t worry, go to extremes first and be conceited, and then slowly make adjustments later. Try it, and you will find the singularity (only for the workplace).

17. After you become an adult, don't communicate with your parents too frequently, especially when your career development is not satisfactory. Don't expect your parents to give you any help, insights or comfort. Every phone call you make will only accelerate their anxiety and panic. Learn to report good news but not bad news.

18. In a certain circle or environment, if you do not have the ability to change the rules, and do not have the ability to make rules for the time being, please be a person who abides by the rules, and avoid jumping left and right, otherwise there is a high probability that you will lose everything, and those who instigate you will only make you lose the last card.

19. Learn to listen. Don’t subconsciously refute when you encounter different opinions. Don’t have unchanging ideas and develop an inclusive mindset.

20. There is no fixed answer to any question in this world. Don’t be bound by the “standard answers”.