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1. When you are out there, don't be too humble. People with personality can win respect from others. Some people tremble when they talk to big guys. What are you afraid of? Have you spent his money? Have you eaten his rice? Have you done anything to let him down? The more humble you are, the weaker others think you are. It is better to stand up straight and express yourself bravely, which will win respect more easily.
2. Money is really important. This idea is indeed very utilitarian, but the dream of most of us is not to become scientists, but to support our families. When we see something we like, we can place an order directly without having to think about it for several days. For those who don’t know where their potential lies, they should use money to measure it. The job that makes the most money is the job that you have the potential for.
3. Be nice to the people closest to you. If they are not the most evil, don't mind if they have one or two shortcomings. Because when you have problems, only the people closest to you will stand up and help you. In addition, everyone has shortcomings. You think some people are perfect only because they are not close to you and you don't see their inner problems.
4. Communicate more when you encounter problems. No matter in any scenario, family, workplace, love, etc., don't go into a cold war when you encounter conflicts. Communication is the best solution. Don't think that time is the best medicine. Time only dilutes the memory of the conflict, but does not fundamentally solve the problem. Sometimes it is because everyone has different positions on a certain point, cannot understand or even misunderstand, and communication can clearly express the current situation of each other. Communicate more.
5. Your kindness must be sharp. It is impossible for you to make everyone obey you, but you must be true to yourself and treat everyone with sincerity.
6. Cultivate your insensitivity appropriately. If you get upset when something happens, and you keep brooding over the mistakes you made, and think that others are saying bad things about you when they look at you, you will become nervous over time. In fact, everyone may encounter bad things, and everyone has made mistakes. Others may not have any ill will towards you. Don't think too much, and you will feel much better.
7. If a person has no dreams, what is the difference between him and a salted fish? In fact, most people really don’t have any dreams, and we can’t blame them. But if a person is unhappy, what is the difference between him and a salted fish? That’s right, a person must be happy.
8. When you look back at yourself ten years later, you will always think, "If only I had done this, how great it would have been." So, if you want to do something now, just do it. The regret of a person's whole life is not that he did not do it well, but that he did not start doing it.
9. Don't learn bad things from others, but learn good things from them. Others are just wasting their time and making trouble because they are just waiting to die. What are you learning? Why can't you learn from those studious and hardworking young people and learn how to become excellent?
10. Don’t listen to people who say that you should study hard and study too much, and don’t believe the nonsense that academic qualifications are useless. The most successful way to invest is not in houses, gold, silver, and jewelry, but in investing in yourself and learning.
11. We will eventually live the way we want
12. Don’t care too much about what others think. Who do you think you are? Why do others think about you every day? So if you make a mistake in a speech, a work report, or anything else, you should pay attention to not making the same mistake again next time and think about how to improve, instead of always thinking about the mocking eyes of others.
13. Regardless of whether you are a man or a woman, don't lower your standards for a partner just because you are lonely. Those who talk nonsense and flirt with other women are really not suitable for you. If you stay with them, you will only make the rest of your life miserable. It is better to slow down and wait for the person who is really right for you to appear.
14. Confirm your life plan as soon as possible. Life is short and energy is limited. There are too many things to do, but too few things can be done well.
15. Don't regret the past, don't doubt the future. What happened in the past has happened. You just need to take every step down to earth and live up to your future self.
16. Things that make you happy in the short term will definitely make you unhappy in the long term. Fried chicken is delicious, but it will definitely make you worry about your figure. Games are fun, but they will definitely make you worry about your grades/performance.
