Lose some money first, and things will be much better after you learn a lesson.
Otherwise, no matter how much others say to you, you won’t believe it.
Specifically, I think the steps are as follows:
1-Have your own investment logic and system
This requires a combination of one's understanding of the capital market and one's own personality. The quick ones can make it through a bull and bear cycle, while the slow ones may never make it in their entire lives. In fact, it doesn't matter if you don't make it. There are many people who make a lot of money without investing, so there is no need to envy them.
Do what you like and are good at, don't be so fussy about others investing and making money
2- Make a plan
Everyone talks about planning, but I think it is still difficult. If you don’t work on it for a long time, you won’t understand your plan. Investment is about probability, winning rate, and odds. Sometimes it is hard to tell investment, speculation, and gambling apart. Those who understand, those who are experienced know what I am talking about.
3-Learning and Evolution
Investment is not static. The world is changing and we must also expand our circle of competence in a rhythmic manner.