When it comes to creating content, if someone likes you, then there will definitely be someone who dislikes you too.

This is a very normal thing.

You can’t make everyone like you.

Even after you reach a certain level, you’ll still run into people who question you, mock you, speak in a sarcastic, indirect way, and even those who spread rumors about you.

What do you do then? Actually, it’s just one sentence: don’t be emotionally fragile.

① Loosen your mindset a bit

To this day, I still don’t have an assistant or a team.

When I first encountered black fans, or when I saw other bloggers publicly criticizing me, questioning me, or even spreading rumors about me, I was also confused: why would other people treat me like this? “Is it because I did something wrong?” At that time, I would reflect on myself too.

But later, many fans told me something really interesting: they first got to know me because they saw others roast me. Pure curiosity. “Who is this person exactly?” “Why are so many people roasting him?”

“So what are those things he said actually like?” Then they click into my profile and start looking at my content.

Slowly you’ll find: it turns out this person really does have something.

from curiosity to attention, from attention to recognition—until the day you truly stick around.

So sometimes you’ll realize: people think they’re attacking you, but in reality they’re helping you get more exposure.

I even post feelings from time to time: why have there been fewer people roasting me lately? Why are my new sign-ups, my follows, and my subscriptions down? Turns out they stopped roasting… Waaaah~

② Negative voices aren’t necessarily a bad thing.

Of course, I’m not saying you should thank every negative comment.

If it’s normal criticism, listen to it. If you really did something wrong, then fix it.

But if it’s simply because they disagree with your viewpoint, or they just don’t like you, then there’s no need to take it too personally.

Because making content is, in itself, a process of publicly expressing your viewpoints.

If you dare to express your viewpoints, someone will definitely disagree.

Content without controversy often has a hard time leaving a deep impression.

So don’t turn into someone who’s afraid to be criticized—someone who dares not say anything and dares not judge anything.

Even if nobody yells at you, it’s still hard for people to truly remember you.

③ What you truly need to avoid is “faking it.”

You don’t have to know everything, but you must never pretend.

You can be wrong, you can lose money, you can cut your losses, and you can admit you misjudged.

But don’t, in order to maintain the so-called “big-shot persona,” force wrong things to be explained as right.

Especially trading content.

You helped others make money, and everyone praises you.

If you caused others to lose money, get criticized a few times.

What’s so big about that?

The market never has a 100% win rate.

What really matters is: what’s your logic? Why do you make that judgment? What do you do if you’re wrong? Do you cut your losses in time?

Dare to make conclusions—and dare to admit mistakes.

That’s more trustworthy than pretending forever, “I can’t be wrong.” As a blogger, you should take responsibility! Don’t blow yourself up when things are right, putting yourself on a pedestal like a god. And when you lose money, don’t try to distance yourself from everything.

④ Negative comments don’t necessarily need to be ignored directly.

Many people tell you, “Don’t pay attention to trolls.”

I think this sentence is right, but not entirely right.

Maltreatment and malicious attacks are obviously not worth wasting time on.

But when I come across some interesting negative comments, I actually feel like interacting.

Even you can tease back a little.

I often say: as you get older, you start liking watching other people put on performances.

Directly clap back, or directly expose the other party—actually, it’s not that meaningful.

The exciting parts can earn you applause. If that doesn’t work, just keep them entertained with a whole episode. 😄

You’ll find that once your mindset truly relaxes, a lot of the comments that used to make you angry will eventually turn into:

“How does this person seem so interesting?” Didn’t Stephen Chow tell you in *A Chinese Odyssey*? “That guy looks like a dog, doesn’t he?”

⑤ Don’t argue with others—compete with time instead.

Especially in the trading space.

Some people say you’re not capable, some say you’re bragging, some say you’ll be back to zero sooner or later—you don’t need to explain every single one.

Because no matter how much you say today, if they don’t recognize it, they still won’t recognize it.

What can truly prove you is always time.

Keep making content, keep researching the market, keep improving your professional skills, and keep sharing your own viewpoints.

What you can do is actually very simple: make your content better and better.

After someone has been around for years, you’ll realize that many arguments are basically meaningless.

Because users will judge for themselves: who truly has something, and who just knows how to bark. It’s obvious 🤷🏻‍♀️

⑥ I can even turn negative comments into content.

If someone raises a really valuable challenge…

Don’t rush to get angry. You can even turn it into the next piece of content.

Someone asks, “Why do you make that judgment?” Then spell out the logic.

If someone questions your strategy, then explain the conditions, the risks, and the points where it fails.

If someone disagrees with your viewpoint, then lay out both sides’ viewpoints.

A negative comment might just be a brand-new content topic.

This is the way a creator should deal with negative voices. If others give you emotions, you turn them into content.

In the end

When you build a personal IP and reach a certain stage, you’ll gradually understand:

It’s normal if someone likes you.

It’s normal if someone hates you too.

What you truly need to do isn’t to make everyone like you.

Instead, let the people who truly recognize you stay.

So don’t doubt your value just because of a few negative comments.

And even more, don’t contort yourself to please everyone until you become a person with no opinions.

You don’t have to, but don’t pretend.

You can make mistakes, but you must be brave enough to take responsibility.

You can cut your losses, but don’t get addicted to arguing.

You can be questioned, but don’t stop putting out content because of it.

Because what ultimately determines how far a creator can go is never how many trolls there are.

Instead: can you hold onto your sincerity? Can you keep your mindset steady?

When people keep evaluating you, can you still stay focused on doing your own work well?

Negative comments aren’t scary. Keyboard warriors aren’t scary either.

What’s really terrifying is: because of them, you start to become someone you’re not.

So, focus on making great content. The rest is up to time.