Your many experiences may seem insignificant in the eyes of others

Many times, we always hope that the grievances and hardships we have endured can be understood and empathized with by others. But the reality is cruel: those deeply unforgettable moments of yours may, in others' eyes, be nothing more than unremarkable stories. Just like the comic in the book: life is like a journey. You carry a bag full of precious memories, but on someone else's scale, it becomes unnecessary weight. The experiences you treasure as priceless are seen by others as burdensome and excessive. Don’t always rush to pour your pain out to the outside world. Most people do not have the patience to carefully take in your suffering. Some will just listen and move on; some may even take your hardships as something you brought upon yourself. Su Shi experienced many ups and downs in his life, being exiled several times and living a wandering existence. People admired his talent, yet in many eyes, the hardships he suffered were simply the result of his own actions. Outsiders cannot see the torment of the late night; they only see the rise and fall of the ending. But those experiences that seemed insignificant to others truly tempered his will. It was precisely those isolated and helpless adversities that distilled endless inspiration, allowing him to write timeless works. "Let life be as it may beneath a straw rain cape," and after going through wind and rain, one gains the clarity of "neither wind nor rain, nor sunshine." In this world, no one can truly and completely feel everything you have felt. Growth itself carries a lonely undertone. In the end, the only one who walks with us through the long road of life is ourselves. There is no need to expect everyone to understand your past. The hardships you have endured and the difficulties you have survived do not need the outside world's approval. Suffering does not need to be proclaimed everywhere; let your experiences settle within you. Lift your head and keep moving forward, and become your own strongest support.