1. Try to post on Moments as little as possible, show your kids as little as possible, and don’t flaunt affection. It’s best not to show off your wealth.
2. Never go empty-handed to someone else’s home. Bring a small gift—this shows good manners and basic social sense.
3. Your salary is 10,000. Tell relatives it’s 3,000, friends 5,000, your wife 9,000, and coworkers “about the same as yours.”
4. Don’t blame reality for being the way it is. Don’t complain that people are calculating. To stand on your own in society, that’s the greatest confidence you can have.
4. Whenever anyone helps you—even if they’re your best friend—send a gift back. Whether they accept it or not, it’s basic respect.
5. When entering a new environment, keep a low profile.
6. Don’t buy things you don’t need, even if they’re cheap. Don’t rely casually on someone who doesn’t love you.
7. Allow yourself to fail, but don’t give up without even trying.
8. Your confusion comes from thinking too much and doing too little.
9. No matter how good your friends or relatives are, you need boundaries. Otherwise, there will be a day when you end up suffering.
10. If they suddenly call you only after a meal gathering or drinking session starts, that means you’re being called to fill in. Remember: don’t go.
11. If someone’s social circle and abilities are far beyond yours, don’t try to curry favor with them—it won’t help.
12. Don’t make yourself feel wronged. Refuse when you need to refuse. Don’t be a “nice person” who over-accommodates, and don’t let your compassion run wild!
13. No matter when or where in life, you need to help yourself. If you give up on yourself, who can save you?
14. Never get so busy that you forget to care about yourself. Your health is the top priority. Wealth gained by trading away your health is the lowest value-for-money deal!
2. Never go empty-handed to someone else’s home. Bring a small gift—this shows good manners and basic social sense.
3. Your salary is 10,000. Tell relatives it’s 3,000, friends 5,000, your wife 9,000, and coworkers “about the same as yours.”
4. Don’t blame reality for being the way it is. Don’t complain that people are calculating. To stand on your own in society, that’s the greatest confidence you can have.
4. Whenever anyone helps you—even if they’re your best friend—send a gift back. Whether they accept it or not, it’s basic respect.
5. When entering a new environment, keep a low profile.
6. Don’t buy things you don’t need, even if they’re cheap. Don’t rely casually on someone who doesn’t love you.
7. Allow yourself to fail, but don’t give up without even trying.
8. Your confusion comes from thinking too much and doing too little.
9. No matter how good your friends or relatives are, you need boundaries. Otherwise, there will be a day when you end up suffering.
10. If they suddenly call you only after a meal gathering or drinking session starts, that means you’re being called to fill in. Remember: don’t go.
11. If someone’s social circle and abilities are far beyond yours, don’t try to curry favor with them—it won’t help.
12. Don’t make yourself feel wronged. Refuse when you need to refuse. Don’t be a “nice person” who over-accommodates, and don’t let your compassion run wild!
13. No matter when or where in life, you need to help yourself. If you give up on yourself, who can save you?
14. Never get so busy that you forget to care about yourself. Your health is the top priority. Wealth gained by trading away your health is the lowest value-for-money deal!
