$ETH Some people really need to wake up. Don’t, just because you see a bride price, think it’s your own “trophy.” If you don’t get married, is the bride price automatically just free money? The money you get back is the bride price, not a breakup fee. Feelings can be discussed, and money can be calculated—but don’t always try to take advantage of others. And don’t frame “getting the money back” as men “cutting the grass” to profit off you.