This is the last post related to you. I just cleared all the notes I posted a few days ago, and I’m posting something new: be happy every day.
I will forget you and start my life again. I’m 25. In the past, I’ve always worked hard to make money because, when you’re young, the first thing you have to get rid of is poverty. I come from the lower end of society. When I was young, I couldn’t choose whom to love—because even if I got married, I would only end up marrying someone from a similar background, and then having a child who would be as poor as we were. That would mean my child would inherit my life again as a “poor person.” I haven’t even begun the relationship and marriage that belong to me.
I’ve had someone calculate it for me. After 28, or even a bit later, it will be more suitable to have a destined, fated love. Before that, I will focus on making money.
I don’t want someone like you to influence my worldview about marriage and love. Because when I think of you, suddenly I feel that if I end up marrying someone like that, it would be really unlucky. I don’t want any one person to make me, in a real sense, feel disgust toward love, toward men. Time moves forward. People change too. In the future, I’ll meet more people. Even if I don’t meet someone who truly loves me well right now, it doesn’t mean I won’t have it in the future. Besides, I only make long-term investments in matters of the heart.
All the money I’m earning now is for my future marriage, family, and children.
I have good conditions, so the people I can meet will be higher quality. And there’s also the fate hidden in the unknown. A person’s fate isn’t limited to your twenties. Even if you meet the right person in your forties or fifties or sixties, that’s still possible. I will only choose what’s truly right for me. So no matter how late, I will spend time building myself and shaping the promising feelings in my life.
Until then, no matter how many people you meet or how many entanglements you have—no matter how you’ve been framed or harmed—no matter what—don’t give up the pursuit of beautiful emotions.
There’s always someone in this world who makes you look up in surprise. There’s always someone who understands you when you’re sad. There’s always someone who truly loves you and cares about you. That’s the realization I’ve gained growing up. Don’t, because of someone who hurt you and made you sad, simply strike it all down. But the other way around is also true: if they’re not a good person, you absolutely must not settle. Cut your losses in time.
At least in these past few years, I’ve been successful in my emotional life. I haven’t married. I know it’s not the right time yet.
In the end, I sincerely wish your family life will be happy and fulfilling. Truly, because I don’t hold any resentment toward you. My only request is to cut ties with me completely and cleanly. In my life, what I keep will only be love and care for me. Wishing you well.
I will forget you and start my life again. I’m 25. In the past, I’ve always worked hard to make money because, when you’re young, the first thing you have to get rid of is poverty. I come from the lower end of society. When I was young, I couldn’t choose whom to love—because even if I got married, I would only end up marrying someone from a similar background, and then having a child who would be as poor as we were. That would mean my child would inherit my life again as a “poor person.” I haven’t even begun the relationship and marriage that belong to me.
I’ve had someone calculate it for me. After 28, or even a bit later, it will be more suitable to have a destined, fated love. Before that, I will focus on making money.
I don’t want someone like you to influence my worldview about marriage and love. Because when I think of you, suddenly I feel that if I end up marrying someone like that, it would be really unlucky. I don’t want any one person to make me, in a real sense, feel disgust toward love, toward men. Time moves forward. People change too. In the future, I’ll meet more people. Even if I don’t meet someone who truly loves me well right now, it doesn’t mean I won’t have it in the future. Besides, I only make long-term investments in matters of the heart.
All the money I’m earning now is for my future marriage, family, and children.
I have good conditions, so the people I can meet will be higher quality. And there’s also the fate hidden in the unknown. A person’s fate isn’t limited to your twenties. Even if you meet the right person in your forties or fifties or sixties, that’s still possible. I will only choose what’s truly right for me. So no matter how late, I will spend time building myself and shaping the promising feelings in my life.
Until then, no matter how many people you meet or how many entanglements you have—no matter how you’ve been framed or harmed—no matter what—don’t give up the pursuit of beautiful emotions.
There’s always someone in this world who makes you look up in surprise. There’s always someone who understands you when you’re sad. There’s always someone who truly loves you and cares about you. That’s the realization I’ve gained growing up. Don’t, because of someone who hurt you and made you sad, simply strike it all down. But the other way around is also true: if they’re not a good person, you absolutely must not settle. Cut your losses in time.
At least in these past few years, I’ve been successful in my emotional life. I haven’t married. I know it’s not the right time yet.
In the end, I sincerely wish your family life will be happy and fulfilling. Truly, because I don’t hold any resentment toward you. My only request is to cut ties with me completely and cleanly. In my life, what I keep will only be love and care for me. Wishing you well.