I cried when I got hacked for $60,000. No—men don’t cry, either. Like, bro, I didn’t get anything done with that little money; let me cry and feel relieved.
Also, during my last collapse, when I blew over $100,000 in a single night, I cried thinking about my debts.
We have to be strong, but we don’t have to not cry.
But I understood this: when you cry, if you have the people you love by your side, they’ll support you, tell you “we’re here with you”—but over time they will start to see you as weak and grow cold. Why?
Because you’ve become a man who looks unsuccessful and powerless now. Yet you trusted their sincerity and showed them your weakest moment.
They didn’t say it for nothing: in your hardest moment, don’t even cry to your wife. She’ll feel sorry for you and support you, but she won’t be able to love you anymore. Honestly, you’re right—but if we’re still going to apply relationship tactics next to our wife, then she can go.
When you’re down, or when you’re going through hard times, cry as much as you want—relieve yourself—but do it alone. When someone asks, just say, “I’m going through a rough process, but I’ll handle it,” and move on—like, “What did we ever not handle?”
Then go start working out, eat healthily, and find something to stay busy with. Study English. Work on your finance. Your mind will get scattered somehow. When you fall, try even harder. Don’t let people get the satisfaction of being right.
When I went down, people looked at me from the outside and thought I was weak—like, “Look how many houses he has, what car he has,” and all that. I’d actually made millions, but in the eyes of the other person, I looked like a pathetic, broken man. Yet even that version of me was still better than millions of people.
Now, I hope we’ll get those $100,000-plus airdrops again in one shot from projects like variational (and we will) and then we’ll show what we can accomplish again.
Also, during my last collapse, when I blew over $100,000 in a single night, I cried thinking about my debts.
We have to be strong, but we don’t have to not cry.
But I understood this: when you cry, if you have the people you love by your side, they’ll support you, tell you “we’re here with you”—but over time they will start to see you as weak and grow cold. Why?
Because you’ve become a man who looks unsuccessful and powerless now. Yet you trusted their sincerity and showed them your weakest moment.
They didn’t say it for nothing: in your hardest moment, don’t even cry to your wife. She’ll feel sorry for you and support you, but she won’t be able to love you anymore. Honestly, you’re right—but if we’re still going to apply relationship tactics next to our wife, then she can go.
When you’re down, or when you’re going through hard times, cry as much as you want—relieve yourself—but do it alone. When someone asks, just say, “I’m going through a rough process, but I’ll handle it,” and move on—like, “What did we ever not handle?”
Then go start working out, eat healthily, and find something to stay busy with. Study English. Work on your finance. Your mind will get scattered somehow. When you fall, try even harder. Don’t let people get the satisfaction of being right.
When I went down, people looked at me from the outside and thought I was weak—like, “Look how many houses he has, what car he has,” and all that. I’d actually made millions, but in the eyes of the other person, I looked like a pathetic, broken man. Yet even that version of me was still better than millions of people.
Now, I hope we’ll get those $100,000-plus airdrops again in one shot from projects like variational (and we will) and then we’ll show what we can accomplish again.