Thirty-six unspoken rules to know when mixing in society:
1. Friends of friends are not your friends.
2. In the workplace, there is only merit, not hard work.
3. Don't blame others for their reality.
4. Be careful of those who have no ties.
5. Don't believe in cheap verbal promises.
6. Don't disturb other people's happiness.
7. Stubbornness will not accomplish great things.
8. Don't use favors to kidnap others.
9. Don't interrupt.
10. Ordinary people, don't compare with others.
11. Remember to return the gift money.
12. The fatter the person, the better the personality.
13. Be 70% transparent and 30% mysterious to others.
14. When looking at jade, you must not touch the jade.
15. It is normal to be disliked by others.
16. When you have the ability to make money, don't mess around.
17. Inviting you to dinner next time is the biggest lie.
18. Don't challenge others' expertise with your amateurism.
19. No clear response means rejection.
20. Don't send voice messages to leaders when sending WeChat messages.
21. Don't take harshness as true nature.
22. Even if you are talented, don't show off easily.
23. Don't use favors to solve things that can be solved with money.
24. Don't say more after helping others.
25. People whose personalities are written on their faces are easy to offend others.
26. Don't casually promise others to do things beyond your ability.
27. Some people flatter you just to laugh at you.
28. When arguing with others, you can talk about theoretical matters, not humiliating words.
29. Don't believe beggars on the roadside or sick people on the Internet.
30. Don't tell others if you don't have money, and don't tell others if you have money.
31. When visiting someone, be sure to contact the host in advance.
32. People who always praise you first are usually hypocritical.
33. Don't open red envelopes in front of the giver.
34. People who have a bad temper at home have no temper in society.
35. Don't give advice to others without the other party asking for advice.
36. Don't give gifts to leaders who come and go. If you want to give gifts, give them to the second-in-command for a long time.
