1. Blessed people must have the pain of love. Many people lose half their lives after experiencing love. But it is precisely this love that helps you achieve nirvana. Let you learn to let go and let go, understand the warmth and coldness of human feelings, and find the strong self again. If the heart is not dead, the Tao will not be born. When you can let go of even the person you love the most, you will be able to do anything.

2. We are all just passing through this world, why should we cling to unhappiness? Life is short, so follow your heart. Don't care about who you have lost, but cherish who you have left. Once your heart is calm, the outside world will be silent. Your mentality is the best feng shui. Everyone has their own worries, but you can't tell everyone. Those who understand don't need to tell, and those who don't understand don't need to tell. Don't punish yourself for other people's mistakes. Life is just a passing by, and there is nothing you can't let go of.

3. There is nothing to compare in life. If we compare beauty, we will all grow old; if we compare wealth, we will all lose; if we compare life, we will all leave this world in the end. Each of us is an experiencer of this world, and after experiencing it, we will quietly leave. There is no such thing as perfect life. Take good care of your health and emotions, and you have already won more than half of this life. As for other things, if you have them, it will be icing on the cake, and if you don't have them, you will still be beautiful. Let go of them and you will be free.

4. Let yourself go, stop thinking about it. What is coming will come naturally, no one can stop it, and what is going will go, no one can keep it. Life is already tiring, why think so much and make yourself so tired? The world is full of suffering, and it is difficult for people to cross the world. We are all passers-by, so why cling to it? If you walk too much, your feet will hurt. If you think too much, your heart will be tired.

5. People always pray for perfection in life, thinking that good tea needs to be paired with a good pot, good flowers need to be paired with a good vase, and beautiful women should be paired with talented men. However, they do not know that sometimes imperfection is a kind of beauty, and being casual can be more pleasing. Being too delicate and too perfect will make you live in fear.

6. Some people have bad marriages, but their children are all very good; some people have very good marriages, but their health may not be very good. The best state of life is to seek imperfection, not perfection. Don't enjoy all the blessings, leave three points to others; don't take all the benefits, leave three points to others.

7. You can forgive others generously, but don't be foolish enough to believe them again. You can forget about grudges, but you can't forget about them. Conscience is something that exists or it doesn't exist. It can't be awakened. Trees are bad at the root, and people are bad at the heart. Never ask others why. The clearer a person is, the less he speaks. The more dignity he has, and the more blessings he will have.

8. Some people do not believe in reincarnation, and the four seasons are reincarnation; some people do not believe in cause and effect, and wealth, beauty and ugliness are cause and effect; some people do not believe in impermanence, and birth, old age, sickness and death, joy, anger, sorrow and happiness are impermanence. People in the world do not know that there is cause and effect, and has cause and effect ever spared anyone? All thoughts and actions are causes, and all experiences are results. One thought of ignorance is the end of Prajna, and one thought of wisdom is the birth of Prajna.

9. All hardships are for growth, and when the suffering reaches the end, you will be enlightened. When fate needs you to grow, it will always arrange some people and things that make you unhappy to wake you up. Don't panic, just get through it and you will be lucky.

10. When a person is in deep depression and encounters major setbacks and hardships in life, please don’t be afraid. That is a person’s awakening period. Most people’s awakening is caused by pain.