First, if you want to work, you must go to a big city, where the work is easy and you can earn a lot of money. If you work in the village, it will be hard and tiring, and you will earn very little money.
Second, what is the essence of marriage? The essence is eating, sleeping and chatting together. Eating together means that the two people have achieved economic equality and mutual assistance. Sleeping together means that the two people have a harmonious sex life. Chatting together means that the two people have communicated with each other.
Third, men are lustful and women love money. Men are willing to spend any amount of money to have sex with beautiful women, while women are willing to have sex with any man for money.
Fourth, no matter what kind of relationship it is, if you cannot get emotional value, financial support, and companionship from the other person, you should give up this relationship.
Fifth, who can you trust in your life? Actually, you can't trust anyone. The only person you can trust is yourself. Only when you make a lot of money can you enjoy the fun of life. No matter how much money others have, it has little to do with you.
Sixth, you cannot have sympathy towards anyone. Only after you have achieved success can you help others a little.
Seventh, housewives are busy with housework and taking care of children all day long, but they feel unhappy and have a bad temper. This is caused by lack of money or lack of love.
Eighth, if a man is generous, does not take advantage of others, and is kind, then this man is likely to accomplish great things.
Ninth, if a person is very cold to you, there will be another person next to this person. Because this person gives all his enthusiasm to the other person, he will be very cold to you.
Tenth, Wu Dalang used his life to tell us that if you don’t have money, you shouldn’t marry a beautiful woman, because it’s easy to cause trouble. Ximen Qing used his life to tell us that no matter how much money you have, you can’t have sex with other people’s wives casually, because doing so will bring bad luck.
Eleventh, all relationships are relationships of interest, including marriage and family. If you want to gain the care of others, you must first learn to care about others.
Twelfth, when interacting with others, if you are nervous, inferior and timid, you will be looked down upon and bullied by others. Therefore, when interacting with others, you must maintain a realistic attitude and be open and aboveboard.
Thirteenth, your parents will hope that you will become better, your relatives will be afraid that you will become better, your colleagues hope that you will be unlucky, and those who want to take advantage of you will advise you to be more generous.
Fourteenth, don’t be kind to everyone. Treat those who bully you in their own way. You must protect yourself well so that you can live peacefully in this world.
15. In front of money, beautiful looks mean nothing. In front of life, dignity means nothing. You need to do dirty and hard work to make money. In front of life, money means nothing. A serious illness can cost tens of thousands of dollars, or even hundreds of thousands of dollars. In front of desire, love means nothing. Some people will have sex with people they don’t love just for the sake of physical comfort.
16. Poor people are reluctant to eat or use good things, so they give them to others. Rich people always give bad things or things they can’t use to others. This is because poor people consider feelings and face, while rich people consider benefits.
Seventeenth, people essentially only have experience and experience, which has nothing to do with age. Only when a person has a lot of experience can he accumulate social experience and do all kinds of things well. If a person has no experience, then even if he lives to a very old age, he will not understand all kinds of things in society very well and will not be able to do many things well.