Take marriage risks rationally.
The woman’s meaning is: isn’t the man always showing off how rich he is? Before marriage, this is my only chance to name my price—might as well take it.
The man’s meaning is: are you here to get married, or to rob the place?

Each has their own reasoning. There’s no way to argue this.
What I mean is: judge people by how they treat you—time will tell the truth.
Before marriage, the woman basically pulled the man dry in one go, seemingly a high-yield move. But it’s not suitable. If you make people angry, for decades afterward, the man will always have chances to get back at you.
Of course, those women who love to argue won’t listen. They think that a 25-year-old rich handsome little brother is bravely carrying the day, rushing over from afar in a hurry to ask for marriage—“I agreed to you, so I’ve already given you a bargain.”😂
Marriage really does involve risk, and it’s a risk where both sides get hurt. Everyone should handle it as reasonably as possible, and everything must be voluntary.🐶